Isabelle Burke’s story: learning to stay connected with my Mum

My mother, Christine, was a lecturer in academic skills. She was diagnosed with young-onset dementia during my first year at university. Our relationship changed dramatically as I became her guardian and primary carer. In the first few months transitioning into a carer, it was easy to get caught up in the logistics of this new dynamic, focusing on what my mum needed me to do for her.